Friday, January 4, 2013

What Would You Wear To An Interview No One Could Smell But You?

Happy holidays from PDX
Dear reader:

First of all: happy holidays to you and yours.  Hope you had a wonderful December full of food and fun and friends and fragrant delights.

Second:  Holy cow! Has it really been over a month? Wow. And what a month! I can't believe I haven't talked to you in so long. My apologies. After a fairly stagnant 2012, so much has happened in the last thirty days, I hardly know where to start.

News of foremost importance: I have a new job! In a whirlwind turn of events, I am left my old job. On Sunday, I board a plane for three weeks of training on the East Coast that begins my training and transitioning, not just to a new company, but into a new field. Or in my case, an old field. My very first jobs were in IT and customer service, and I am returning to form as I take a position in customer service and tech support for a web development company.

Endings and beginnings, they all
mean one thing: PAPERWORK.
Exhausting!
What does this have to do with the law, you ask? Absolutely nothing. This is a big shift in my life and times, and I'm excited to have you along for the ride, dear reader.

One of the things I'm most excited about it that my new employer has no restrictions on scent in the workplace, so I can now wear my lovely perfumes with abandon (provided I'm not, you know, knocking people down with them). And I thought of you, dear reader, as I was doing my interviews only two and a half short weeks ago, and how I wanted to talk to you about all my plans and schemes and future dreams and where scent fits into them.

All my interviews occurred in the span of four days in the wee, small hours of the morning and at a distance, thanks to the wonders of Skype. Nonetheless, I got up and did my hair, make-up, suited up, and generally got gussied so I would be in the proper formal mind set and feel like I was projecting the right attitude. (Though I did not once have to wear painful shoes, and it was glorious.) As I primped and prepped, I went through my scent wardrobe and thought about what to wear.

It was an intriguing challenge, because I needed interview scents, yes, but since no one would be able to smell them but me, it was a question of what would comfort me, challenge me, help me put my best foot forward.

My picks were as follows:

So much love for Mandy
and her gorgeous scents! 
First Round Interview Day:  Aftelier Perfumes Cepes and Tuberose, which I am currently OBSESSED with and will giving its full review due very soon. I picked this because I felt like it was both sophisticated and soothing, refined and elegant, but still warm and comforting. I felt both fancy and at ease, and that's not an easy scent combo.

Second/Third Round Interview Day: This was the big interview day, and felt very "make it or break it." That morning, I laid heavily into the Chanel No. 5 EdT, such that a cloud of lovely was following me all day long. It was good I wore my perfume steel, too, because this was a tough round of interviews. Despite feeling my confidence shaken like I'd just gone twelve rounds with Simon & Garfunkel's "Cecilia," the scent kept hitting me all day, reminding me that I am resilient, not to mention classic and beautiful and enduring, and would survive no matter what came next.

Fourth Round Interview Day: At this point, I felt pretty positive I wasn't even in the running. This interview was scheduled before the second round I felt like I blew, and I was worried it was more about going through the motions. Nonetheless, I wanted to put my best foot forward, so I went for something that would make me feel pretty and happy, something I find easy and undemanding to wear. I also wanted something with a strong personal appeal, something to make me feel good since I thought the interviews weren't going so great.

In the end, I chose a scent that I never get the compliments on even though I feel like I should. I settled on fruity floral fun in the form of Jo Malone Pomegranate Noir, which turned out to be a great choice in terms of personal ease and confidence.

Then, dear reader, I did the only thing I could do: wore pretty perfume, took deep breathes, and hoped that this time the die would fall in my favor...

See ya, old job! Me and
my TARDIS stickies
are outta here!
...and IT DID!

Despite all my private hand-wringing and teeth-gnashing, I got the job! How much my perfume factored into this, I cannot tell you. In my mind, though, it is a measurable factor in my personal feelings of preparedness and appeal, and consequently my success.

Also, one of my new coworkers is a fellow 'fumie! We already talked perfumes on GChat! Surely, this is a good sign!

So what about you, dear reader? What would you wear if you had a job interview no one could smell but you? And what scents do you advise I take with me to meet my new employers while I spend three cold weeks in Boston this January?

Inquiring 'fumie minds want to know!

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on your new job:-)

I don't know how cold it'll be there but perfume that makes you feel warm and good and confident would seem a safe bet.

All the best, and well done!

cheerio, Anna in Edinburgh

Doc Elly said...

It's good to see you back blogging again! Congratulations on the new job, and congratulations on making a transition to doing something you'll enjoy. Take perfumes that are warm and beautiful, that make you feel good. How nice that you have a colleague who's into perfume! Best wishes for success in the new job, safe travels, and a wonderful year in 2013!

mandy said...

Thanks so much for including Cepes & Tuberose in your marvelous feature Diana, I am honored!
xo Mandy

Martha said...

Woohoo! Congratulations!

I'm not sure what I would have chosen if you hadn't mentioned Cepes & Tuberose, but now that you did, it seems like the right choice for me, too. It has enough strangeness to give it power and identity, and it's also terribly beautiful.

Rhiannon said...

Boston in winter? My mind goes to Fille en Aiguilles, which I absolutely adore even here on the beach in Mexico. Granted, its wearability under the palm trees are limited, but anytime it gets sufficiently cold I indulge in a spritz or two.

As for an invisible interview perfume, my first thought was something a little dry and authoritative that walks the line between alluring and haughty like Bois de Musc or Christopher Brosius' Cumming but I think when it comes right down to it I'd have to go with something rich, classically composed and completely unassailable like Caron's original formulation of Poivre.

I'm new to your blog, but I love what I've read so far. I hope you'll blog more often.

Joan said...

Congrats Diana!

I'd wear the biggest, boldest thing I could find, but not too feminine. and sort of mature.

Maybe Aromatics Elixir.

DWR said...

Anna--

Thanks for reading. You know, I packed for cold weather, and now it's warmer in Boston than it is back in Portland! Crazy weather! All I know is: I should have brought more perfume!

Diana

DWR said...

Doc Elly --

My new coworker has good taste, too! She showed up with some delightfully skanky vintage scents. We're a good pair, though I wonder what other people in the office think. Ha!

Thanks for reading,

Diana

DWR said...

Mandy--

Thank you for making such wonderful olfactory delights! I love your scents. You're going to KILL my 2013 perfume budget!

Diana

DWR said...

Martha--

"Terribly beautiful..." Ooooh! I love that phrase. Like an avenging angel, or a deadly flower.

What a lovely, wonderful way of putting it.

Thanks for reading!

Diana

DWR said...

Rhiannon--

I adore Brosius' Cumming! I think it is such a nice mix of spicy, warm, and a little dirty. I really wish I could think of a strongly cinnamon scent that didn't also read as baked goods or Christmas to me. Sitting next to my window and the icy water and walks below, it seems winter appropriate. It has not been all that cold in Boston so far, but it's supposed to get a lot colder next week. We shall see...

Thanks for reading. I'm hoping to post a little more regularly once I get back to Portland and get resettled after training for my new job. Keep your fingers crossed for me! :)

Diana

DWR said...

Joan-

Thanks for the well-wishes! I did not bring anything super bold, but that's mostly because I'm still trying to figure out where I fit in this organization. But I brought some options...and maybe next week, which is week three, I'll drop the proverbial scent bomb!

Diana

Natalie said...

Congrats on the job! This is a great question, and one I have to say I struggle to answer. If truly it needed to be un-smelled by anyone but me, I might lightly scent a page of my notebook with whatever perfume I was really loving at the moment. I don't trust perfumes to be undetectable on skin. :)

lawgoddess said...

I got a sample of Cepes and Tubereuse and am trying it now. So far, I'm in love. It smells very warm and earthy to me.
I poked around on the web and some people say Mandy's scents have no longevity and no sillage. I am finding that hard to believe based on what I'm smelling now.
I got a sample of Wild Roses and some of the bath oils, too, beautifully packed and with a nice note.

I put it on the backs of my hands and I keep sniffing them!

Good luck with the new job! Stay warm! It's freezing here in Michigan.

Martha said...

I wish that I could find what Henry Mitchell (my favorite garden writer) had to say about the question of long-blooming flowers, but the gist of it was that a peony or a once-blooming rose is often beautiful enough to be worth far more than many sturdy flowers that bloom all summer. The three days that they bloom before being torn apart by the last spring storm, gone until next year, is ample payment for the space that they occupy.

The same is true for Cepes & Tuberose, and Honey Blossom, and most of the Aftelier scents that I've tried; even if they did only last an hour, they'd be worth it. And you don't even have to wait until next year to smell them again.

Martha/ChickenFreak

DWR said...

Natalie--

That's an interesting approach to having scent, but not wearing it, in times of distress and scent oppression. In my case, the interviews were all via skype, so the interviews were across the country while I sat in my house. No one could smell it but me. It meant I could wear anything I liked without offending anyone. It was very freeing.

Diana

DWR said...

Lawgoddess-

It actually turned out to be colder in Portland than in Boston a lot of the time I was gone, though that did not keep me from getting crazy sick while I was there.

I'm glad you're liking Cepes and Tuberose. My review is coming in a few days, as I loved it so much, I needed to give it a post entirely it's own.

Diana

DWR said...

Martha--

It's funny you said that, because -- as you'll see in my posts for the rest of the week -- I'm currently wrestling with the longevity of some of the Aftelier scents on my skin vs. the price point. I love two of them, but they are so short! I'm of two minds about it.

Glad to see you around. Thanks for reading. :)

Diana