Sunday, December 26, 2010

Wow, Bob, wow.


Wow, I wasn't going to post this week, but I just have to stop by to say how much I heart ya'll, how amazing and supportive you all re and how glad I am that I have this blog.  Also here are a few fleeting perfume-y thoughts I had today:

* Bath & Body Works Velvet Tuberose is not as sucky as it could have been.  As tuberoses go, it's not a bad one for the novice to encounter, and might lead a body to something like Prada's tuberose, and then eventually to Fracas.

* Speaking of tuberoses, here's a little tip for you perfume sales types: don't try to sell me various versions of a note I've already told you I have a favorite of.  If I tell you I own and love pure parfum Fracas, this is not a sign to fling every tuberose-based scent at me.  Also, don't try to sell me every flanker variation of a scent if I tell you I own it.  Perhaps I am merely trying to demonstrate to you that I like things that aren't necessarily tuberose.  Though, thank you, incidentally, for the Prada Infusion de Tubereuse, since I liked it -- but generally DO NOT DO THIS (especially after I tell you I collect and review perfume!)

* I got some solid perfume for Christmas. I liked it so far. I think I'd like it even more a crazy locket (note to self).

* Also, check out this adorable little clutch I got today (see above). Anyone have suggestions on scents I could wear with an outfit that is seriously built around this?

Saturday, December 25, 2010

You said you'd help me disappear, but that could take forever.





Dear Reader:


I am floundering.


It's sad. It's true.  It's what it is.  2010 is coming to a close; what do I have to show for it? I don't know.


I guess this is the hard part of being, for reals, a grown up.  I've always been going, going, doing, doing.  Cross some item off a cosmic list.  Making some haunting spectre's dream for me come true.  I turned to David about six weeks ago and said, "I think I've finally accomplished everything every dead person I ever loved really wanted for me.  Now I have to figure out, what the hell do I actually want for myself?"


And that's what I'm trying to do.  


I'm in the middle of a project I really want to finish, to the point that I sometimes feel irritated at the rest of my life for getting in the way of it.  I haven't really made any progress on a project I'm committed to.  My perfume storage is too small and cramped to be really effective, I've been sniffing but not really loving anything new, and thus returning over and over to the things I already have.  I've been neglecting this blog because I'm not sure what to say.  Any review I would have written in the last two months would have come out "meh."  I just haven't loved anything seriously, though I do want a bottle of Jo Malone Red Roses to layer with my CB I Hate Black March so bad my teeth ache.


I put off taking the bar until July 2011, though at this point I'm resigned to doing it so I can practice, even though at this point I'm pretty sure being a lawyer is just another thing I'm going to pass through rather than be.  I wish I could find a way to make the things I love -- perfume, and writing, and music, and story telling, and fighting for women and my own voice -- be what I do every day.  I like to think I'm working toward it in a lot of little ways, but I emphatically do not want to wake up an other five or ten years and still be trying to make other people happy.  I'm lucky in that David seems pretty cool with me never really knowing, to be supportive as I try and toss away various hats.  And my friends love me for who I am, whoever that is today, and that's lucky.  And I have John, who knows me, really only he does, and I will always have him, though his being in Iraq has been really hard this holiday season.  But I don't know who I am yet;  not really.  I have axioms.  I have codes.  I have rules and  theories, faiths and scars, expressions and philosophies, hand gestures and nervous tics, but I feel like a work in progress, all the time.


I just want to be me.  And for that to be happy.


I'm going to give myself the week of between now and 01/01/11 to sniff around and think and maybe listen to some music and make some notes and be inspired before I come back to you.  Until then, I love you.  I really do.


Thanks for listening.


~ Diana


"I want my chest pressed to your chest
My nervous systems interfere
Ten or eleven months at best
I think I'll wait another year

This weather turns my tricks to rust
I am a lousy engineer
The winter makes things hard enough
I think I'll wait another year."



~ "Another Year," Amanda Palmer

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Happy Election Day!


There is still time here on the west coast to get those ballots in!  
Get out there and vote!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

A little grin, a little groan, oh baby...

Etat Libre d'Orange Antihéros

So it's one week until All Hallow's Eve.  Is everyone else as excited as I am?  I doubt it.  I have a good costume this year, which I promise to post you pix of next week, and I am going to a party this year, so I actually have somewhere to where it other than the 24-hour pie house I always seem to end up at on Halloween.  It's weird, but true  Every freaking year.

But we're here to talk about perfume...


Etat Libre d'Orange describes Antihéros as follows:
Take me as I am » seems to say this fake Mr Everybody. An anti-hero never lies about who he is, hence the seeming simplicity of this hedonistic and sun-drenched creation, entirely centered on lavender flower. This hero of everyday life fights very ordinary battles at work, when driving, at home without every taking anything too seriously. His innate modesty is extremely appealing and he knows it. He cultivates his imperfections with wit and with natural unconventional elegance. With his tousled hair and look, this somewhat unexpected superman catches the eye and still cannot believe it – that’s why we adore him.

Composition: lavender, musk, wood...
The lavender and wood combines for a clean smell, so the initial impression is a light, almost lemon or lime wood scent, after a few minutes, though, it arms up as it sweetens and deepens.  The lavender is really dominate at this point, and reminds me of the lavender cupcakes my friend Jill made for my friend Tiff's birthday.  The wood feels less like a base thank a kind of side note afterthought  The musk is almost no where to be found, leaving the combination with a sort of tea like feeling over all.

The words "innate modesty" are, I think, a fitting way to describe it.  It feels like a masculine to me in a Chuck Bass sort of way, but it also makes for a nicely cozy winter scent.  Personally, I prefer L'Artisan's Tea for Two, but if that's to spicy for you and you'd like a scent that is a little more toward the floral tea side, you might really like this one.

You can buy Antihéros in 50ml and 100ml bottles, as well as get samples, from LuckyScent or direct from the perfumer.


"If I could just turn back the clock and hear you hum along again
I'd give up all this tea I bought hoping you'd stop by.
At least a case of Orange Spice. 
Now tea is something I don't like.
I like coffee. I like it dark.
It's not for wimps.
You're not a wimp, but you're a Buddist.
That's like..voodoo.
Tea tastes like doodoo.
But for you I'd buy tea
just to have you hum along."
- "Just to Have You Hum Along," Betty Elders


Want more?  try....
~ a review from Fragantica
~ a review from A Minx by Any Other Name
~ a review from Aromascope
~ a review from One Thousand Scents
~ a review from Antihéros

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

And the winner is...

The Astoria column, at night.

So my dear readers, here are the results of the anniversary draw!

I know you're all itching to find out who won.  thus we turn to Randomizer, who gives us the following results:

There were 9 items in your list. Here they are in random order:

Screenshot or it didn't happen!
  1. Oh, True Apothecary
  2. Bellatrix
  3. PearlSugar
  4. Elisa Gabbert
  5. Ines
  6. amberleigh
  7. Fresh Local and Best
  8. JoanElaine
  9. Kathy
Timestamp: 2010-10-19 04:13:57 UTC

Congrats to Oh, True Apothecary, our grand prize winner (with an awesome name, I might add -- thy drugs are quick)! You get a mixed cd, candy, two samples (my random choice) and a $15 gift certificate to either Luckyscent or The Perfumed Court, your choice.

Second prize winners are Bellatrix, PearlSugar, Elisa Gabbert, and Ines, who will get a mixed cd, candy and three samples  (my random choice) each.  

Thanks everyone for entering, and keep reading because there will likely be more fun drawings soon.

Winners, please email me at femininethings@gmail.com with your addresses so I can get your prizes in the mail by the end of the week.

Until tomorrow, dear ones.